“He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you.”—Bob Marley
I want my next relationship to be a little old school. Ask me if I’d like to hang out and get coffee sometime, dress up just a little to go out on a date, ring my doorbell instead of sending that “here” text, and ask if I want to be in a relationship. Flowers and handwritten letters and notes would be pretty nice too.
The killer separated the men from the women, and made the men leave the classroom. He said, “I am fighting feminism.” He said, “You’re women, you’re going to be engineers. You’re all a bunch of feminists. I hate feminists.”
He moved through the halls and classrooms targeting women for death. In just 20 minutes, he murdered 14 women and wounded 10 women and 4 men. Then he shot himself.
Remember the dead. Who knows what these women could have done if they had been allowed to live and work?
“I think you need to fall in love with the wrong person. I think you need to fight and cry and sweat and bleed and fail. I think you need to have bad relationships and bad breakups. I think you need all of that so that when the right person and the right relationship comes along you can sigh with relief and say, “Ah yes. That is how its supposed to feel.”—Excerpt from “Conversations with my Mother” (via illusionsvk)